Writing on desire, boundaries, and listening to the body
Practical guides for the conversations that matter, plus longer letters from my Substack, Letters from the Body.
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The Girl With the Side Bangs
I spent twenty years exiling the teenager I used to be before deciding it was time to go back for her.
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The Cost of Self Abandonment
On self-abandonment, authentic desire, and the radical act of knowing what you want
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A Love Letter to Luteal
For every woman who was taught to see her cycle as the enemy
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Lay Down the Sword
On the terrifying, liberating practice of saying the thing out loud
Read on Substack ↗Symphony of Senses: Why Your Body Knows What It Wants
How Understanding Pleasure Through Food and Music Can Unlock the Bedroom (and Life)
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When You've Stayed Too Long (Or Left Too Early)
A love letter to the you who knows how to listen
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The Season of Allowing
A seasonal reflection in opposition to the Gregorian calendar
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A Quiet Reckoning with Want
Because pleasure grows from attunement, not endurance, and learning that difference changes how you relate to yourself and everyone else.
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Winter Has Arrived
— a love letter to the season that strips us down to something true
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The Current of Currency
“Money is like water. It can be a conduit for commitment, a currency of love.” — Lynne Twist, The Soul of Money
Read on Substack ↗The Snake and the Trust Fall
On control, transformation, and remembering that every ending is a beginning
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Returning to Ourselves Through the Fall
On self-pleasure, step-parenthood, and the messy, beautiful practice of staying open
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