A space to be fully seen
Many of us have never had a space where being fully seen felt possible. If that’s what you’re longing for, we build the conditions for it here, starting with you.
Somatic intimacy & sex coaching for individuals What if you actually got what you want?
Most of us have a long, well-rehearsed list of reasons why we don’t say what we want out loud. What if I come off as too much? What if I’m misunderstood? What if they leave? I know that list well. I’ve spent years working my way down it.
- 90 minper session
- $250no packages
- Boulder or onlineworldwide
- Free call30 minutes
Who finds their way here
Where are you right now?
People come from a lot of different places. Choose the one that sounds most like you.
Looking for your person, and something keeps getting in the way.
Where we’d often start
- Spot your old patternsBefore they pick your next partner for you.
- Name your non-negotiablesEarly and cleanly, without apologizing or overexplaining.
- Stay in your body on datesSo you can feel your yes, your no, and your maybe in the moment.
Carrying pain around sex, in the body, in the heart, or both.
Where we’d often start
- Freezing or leaving your bodyDuring intimacy, or feeling disconnected even when you’re trying to be present.
- Shame and performanceSex that looks right from the outside and feels hollow from the inside.
- Care, and the truthA space where being fully seen can finally feel possible.
Fresh out of a breakup, something cracked open that you don’t want to close back up.
Where we’d often start
- After rupture or betrayalRebuilding trust with yourself before you rebuild it with anyone else.
- Know what you want nowNot what you wanted ten years ago, or what your last partner wanted.
- Spot your old patternsBefore they pick your next partner for you.
In a season of change, the old version of you in relationship no longer fits.
Where we’d often start
- Know what you want nowNot what you wanted ten years ago, or what your last partner wanted.
- Name your non-negotiablesEarly and cleanly, without apologizing or overexplaining.
- Talk about sex, boundaries, and sexual healthWith someone new, before things get heated.
Unsure what you want, or sure, and never able to ask for it.
Where we’d often start
- Not knowing what you wantIn sex, in touch, in relationships. We find out from the body up.
- The yes that means maybePeople-pleasing, over-giving, and boundaries that arrive too late.
- Practice saying itRevealing your insides to the outside world, one real sentence at a time.
Simply wanting more, more pleasure, more aliveness.
Where we’d often start
- A real relationship with your own desireWhat is genuinely true for you right now, separate from expectations and cultural scripts.
- Nothing is brokenWhen it comes to pleasure, more is more.
- Stay in your bodySo you can feel your yes, your no, and your maybe in the moment.
Talk it through on a free call30 minutes, no pressure
What my clients share is a willingness to look inward and get curious about themselves, maybe for the first time in a long time.
“I think the most noticeable shift was realizing that I do, in fact, know what I want.”
Katarena H., workshop participant
“I feel like a totally different person after our sessions. I feel much more at peace, centered, and safe in my own skin.”
1:1 coaching client
“Jade’s curious and compassionate energy offered a relaxed space for me to go to some previously unexplored places and expand my perspective on pleasure.”
Leigh, individual client
Getting ready to date again
Walk back into dating knowing who you are
Coming out of a long relationship, a divorce, or a breakup that rearranged you? Dating in a new way, like opening up to non-monogamy? The old playbook doesn’t fit anymore.
Before you start swiping, we get you ready from the inside.
Tick what you’d love to have in place before your next first date.
Tap any that sound like you.
That’s exactly what we’d work on. Let’s talk.If you’ve been single a long while, or you’re coming out of a long relationship or a string of painful ones, it’s easy to lose hope. It’s never too late.
Miracles can happen tomorrow: a love, and an experience of pleasure, you didn’t think was humanly possible.
How we work
Care, and the truth
A real relationship with your desire
In our sessions you’ll develop a real relationship with your own desire, uncovering what is genuinely true for you right now, separate from external expectations, past partnerships, and cultural scripts. Then you’ll practice revealing your insides to the outside world.
Your body’s information
I pay close attention to what your body is already communicating, because our nervous systems hold information our thoughts haven’t reached yet.
Care and the truth
You’ll get a lot of care from me. You’ll also get the truth. Clients tell me I get to the crux of a thing fast, and that I’ll call them out with love when they need it.
“I feel like a veil has been lifted as I form a better relationship with my body and how it informs my emotions.”Marti, individual client
There’s plenty I’m still figuring out, on my own and with my partner. I have my own therapist and my own mentors. I won’t ask you to go anywhere I haven’t been willing to go myself.
The practical part
Sessions at a glance
90 minutes, $250
Prepaid by card, Venmo, PayPal, or Zelle. Sixty-minute sessions available on request, and reduced-rate places too; just ask on your call.
Boulder or online
In person at my private office in Boulder, Colorado, or by video from anywhere in the world.
Talk + body
We move between conversation and somatic practice. Optional hands-on work in person is always clothed and non-sexual.
One session at a time
No packages. Weekly or every other week, and you set the rhythm.
The first step is a conversation.
Book a free discovery call. We’ll talk about what’s bringing you here and whether we’re a fit.
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